I think it is very hard lesson for all to learn:
Just because we initiate the change does not mean it was easier for us.
There is so much behind those final decisions. Who does it effect? What is healthier for all parties? Can we live with the decision?
I have been blessed with support from all areas in my life. I have wonderful friends (believe me, you find out who your friends are), amazing children (they can think for themselves), strong family, an unmatched support group (my zumba family) and the most caring, loving and supportive best friend.
I don't always feel strong, but there is always one of these people there to remind me that I can do this.
I refuse to be the victim. I made these decisions and I made them for good reasons. Every day may be hard, but I know it will get easier. Why? Because I am moving forward now, not back. Now that is the most intelligent plan I could ever make.
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